The real flex is staying kind no matter how cruel the world is.
The real flex is keeping your heart soft and your boundaries strong.
The real flex is saying no when you want to, and choosing yourself first.
The real flex is working through your failures and turning them into success.
The real flex is healing and not traumatizing others with your unhealed wounds.
The real flex is not taking things personally and remembering you aren’t responsible for other people’s actions.
The real flex is being yourself at all times and not other versions you put up to please others.
The real flex is knowing your worth and pulling yourself away from situations that don’t value you.
The real flex is staying grateful.

Mariam Shittu